Whatever happened to smiling at someone when you walk past them? Saying hello to a stranger? Letting someone go in front of you in line?
‘Nice-ness’ is not something people should have to earn from you. It’s part of being human & living alongside one another.
We see people so caught up in their own little lives that they feel entitled to not be ‘nice’, entitled to be first & entitled to be judgemental.
It costs nothing to be nice. Absolutely nothing. Say hello, nod & smile, give way, be patient with those around you – not everyone is in a rush – set the example that kindness can be the rule, not the exception. God knows, the next generation needs this.
No one likes a complainer, don’t talk about others behind their back (treat others how you want to be treated), be someone people look up to, give compliments when necessary, never judge a book by its cover, be exciting……never boring, enjoy “ME” time and don’t rely on others to make you happy, make someone smile……it is one of the most generous things you can do, lend a hand when needed, love everyone for who they are. Imagine meeting this person, send this vibe out there and these types of people will be attracted to you.
Surround yourself with those on the same mission as you, be the person you want to meet.